Your Profile Picture: Which Pictures Work For Dating Younger Women,Sugar Baby

Putting up a picture is the most important part of making your online profile. We covered in our last guide how to create the perfect profile to attract women looking for a sugar daddy, but we didn’t go into the most important part in depth yet.

For men dating younger women, one of the most important things to remember is that women look at the picture first. If you’re clicking on a girl, you won’t read her summary if her profile picture is fugly and gross.

Girls are the same, but what they’re looking for in a man’s picture, especially what they’re looking for in a sugar daddy profile picture on the best dating sites, is totally different from what you’re looking for. You’re probably mostly looking for how hot the girl is, but girls look for more than that, which a lot of guys forget about.

The first rule of photography for a dating site profile picture is to go for the “George Clooney Effect.”

When asked what kind of older man they like, most girls will say “Like George Clooney.”

George Clooney isn’t that handsome or magic, but he does have a way of attracting hot young women. It’s not very hard to give yourself the same kind of look.

Don’t try too hard to be like someone else; take the best picture of YOU that you can. If it doesn’t look like you, you won’t be comfortable living up to the picture. You want a picture that highlights you to the best of your natural self, not one that tries way too hard to make you look like someone you aren’t, when that’ll be obvious when you meet your sugar baby for the first time anyway.

If you’re not sure how to get the George Clooney Effect, just remember everything we went over when we talked about setting up a profile on sugar daddy sites. If it makes you look cool and classy and busy, it’s probably for the best. If it makes you look nice and pathetic, get rid of it.

Get a pic in a suit or tux.

A nice suit or tux is to women what sexy lingerie is to men. It instantly speaks of money and refinement. Remember your target audience: most of the guys asking these girls out don’t own a suit. Most of them wouldn’t even know where to rent one. These girls want to think about themselves on a rich man’s arm while they go to important parties and spend time on yachts in different countries. They don’t want to go to beer pong parties, or they’d date guys in their age groups.

Get a pic of you on a boat or in a foreign city.

If you have a picture of you looking classy on a boat or in a foreign city, now is definitely the time to pull it out.

If you don’t have one, make sure you have a good friend who’s skilled in photoshop. Someone who knows what he’s doing will make it so it’s very difficult to tell where the picture was initially taken, and the girls will immediately be able to look at the picture and want to go with you.

It’s important to make sure the girls you’re going after feel like they’d be lucky to be at your side. They should be looking at the empty space next to you and thinking how stupid other girls are that aren’t climbing all over you.

If you make your profile picture look exotic and intriguing, girls will immediately want to get to know you better. This is more than half the battle, because it’s very easy to get a girl to want to be with you once you’ve already got her interested. Next, we’ll deal with how to talk to sugar babies online, dealing properly with these girls.

Closing The Deal: From First Date To Sex QUICK

When done right this should be pretty easy.

The hardest part of the process when learning how to be a sugar daddy is setting up your profile properly to attract these young and hot women in their 20s who want to hook up with older, more experienced, established men – using online dating sites for just that purpose.

However, a lot of guys seem to think that getting a girl from a first date to first sex. If you’ve followed this guide, closing the deal should be pretty easy.

Of the three of us guys, we’ve had very few issues moving from the hotel bar to our places when we want to move from talking to sex. Girls on sugar daddy websites know what they’re signing up for, and they know what the guys they meet are looking for. You’re bringing the experience and charm to the table: they’re bringing the sex.

Once you realize that they’re coming to the bar with sex already in mind, approach the evening that way. Be confident. Never forget for a second that this is going to lead to her coming back to your place.

Don’t tell her you’re assuming sex.

Remember, the thing these girls are most afraid of is that the man is just using them for sex. What you want to do is act confident, self-assured. There’s no reason this can’t lead to sex on the first meeting if you like the girl and she’s as hot as her picture.

She’s more nervous about impressing you than you are about impressing her.

She has to impress you with her beauty and her willingness. If you don’t like what she’s offering, you have a hundred more choices on the same website where you found her—and she knows that already.

Don’t sell yourself short, and don’t assume she won’t be into going back to your place on the first date. Chances are, she will.

Have a story ready.

Is your apartment up to snuff with the kind of man who goes yachting on weekends? Yeah, ours either. Remember, you don’t actually have to be a millionaire to score with the girls on sugar daddy websites when you’re looking up how to be a sugar daddy.

The story we use is that we have two places in the city. She’s offering her beauty and youth, and you’re offering your lifestyle. You want this girl to be in love with your lifestyle, and think about how cool it would be to have two places in the city to live in.

Then, you should tell her that your main place in this city, the one you usually spend time in, has been occupied by guests. This again gives the impression that you’re a busy, important person who has dozens of contacts all making demands on your time. It also gives her the option to make it feel like she’s choosing to spend time with you and you alone.

Tell her that it’s fine, because your second place in the city has whatever cool collection or item you’re using as bait. If you’ve actually been boating or traveling or whatever, items and pictures from travel work great for this. Pets wok well, too. “Come and meet my dog” or fish or whatever is great—make her feel like she’s special by bringing her to the place you spend your time, the one you consider your home.

Another nice item to show off is a vintage collection of some kind, or a very special bottle of wine. She probably won’t know much about wine, so you can get away with making up some bullshit about a bottle if you know how to make it sound fancy.

First Meet-Up: Where Is The Best Place To Take Your Young Chick On A First Date

When setting up a meeting between an older man and a younger woman, it’s important to know where to take her. If you decide to meet somewhere uncool or sketchy, she’ll probably never show up—and if she does show, she’s not the kind of girl you want to meet anyway.

Where is the best place to take a sugar baby?

The best place to take a sugar baby is a hotel bar. Keep it local—don’t make her feel afraid by asking her to meet somewhere out of her comfort zone. If you can, make sure it’s a 4 or 5 star hotel. This is a nice way to bring a lot of ambiance to the meeting with very little effort.

This is also a good way of having a drink at a bar, which girls are used to, but taking it out of her expectations. Most girls in their 20s don’t get taken to fancy hotel bars very often. Immediately, this puts the playing field in your favor, because she’ll be nervous and excited to be there.

Remember who you’re competing against: frat guys who would rather chug beer and don’t know how to order a nice martini.

Have a drink before she gets there.

This will help to calm your nerves. It also makes it look like you’re a man who can hold his liquor, not a drunk like the guys she’s usually used to going out with on a Friday night.

Remember your competition.

The best these girls can usually do, their next option after you, is a BUM guy. These guys can maybe afford to buy her a Bud Light during happy hour, and you’re sitting in a fancy hotel bar stirring a fancy drink. Whatever you order, do it confidently, though you shouldn’t over-drink.

You can do this. Don’t be afraid, your competition is off playing beer pong and doing chest-bumps with some other frat dude over football. The girls you’re meeting are the ones who are sick of these idiots. They want to find a real man who’s as different from those guys as possible. Already you’re in the lead, because you’re a totally different kind of guy. She wants that. Don’t feel insecure about your age.

Your age is why she wants you.

Older guys who try to act young are just pathetic, and no girl wants to date them. An older guy who acts refined and experienced, on the other hand, is something that drives girls nuts. Be the experienced guy who knows a thing or two about the world, not the sad old fart.

She is WAY more nervous than you are.

The girl you are meeting is younger, less mature, and in way over her head and out of her league…and she knows it. This is your KEY ADVANTAGE. She is coming to the table knowing that all she has is her looks, so she’ll probably be very nervous.

Don’t fuck it up.

Be confident. LEAD her. The flow of the conversation is up to you—it’s all in your court to seal the deal.

Sugar Baby Gift Etiquette: Get Her Gifts That Look Expensive & Exotic On A Shoestring Budget

0-oo2NbYKq0m6QMkgqNow we’re into the part that makes a lot of men leery of trying to meet younger women. The parts about meeting and impressing a girl are all well and good, but what do you do when it comes to actually giving the kinds of gifts that sugar babies will expect? After all, you did meet her on a sugar daddie dating website!

We’ve got you covered.

It is totally possible to give a nice gift that looks excellent, exotic, and hard to find to your sugar baby. The trick is remembering that the girls you’re meeting aren’t just there for the money—they’re coming for the experience, the lifestyle, the feeling of dating an older, successful, experienced, refined man exactly like you are.

You’re giving the experience—not the money.

With that in mind, it makes it a lot easier to get your sugar baby something that speaks of everything you want to convey about your life. Here’s how you go about getting her a gift.

Go to etsy.com.

If you don’t know etsy, it’s a site where people can sell their handmade crap. A lot of them do custom work.

Jewelry is always the best idea. This is true for buying things for sugar babies, and it doesn’t really matter what kind you get. You can get stuff for really cheap, usually under $10, that looks exotic and interesting.

It doesn’t have to look fancy.

Remember, it’s all about the attitude, and the lifestyle you’re selling. A collection of beads and shells and cheap stones is fine, as long as it doesn’t look mass-produced. Now, after you find the jewelry for probably about the same price as a good cup of coffee, here’s the important part.

Sell her a story.

Tell her that the jewelry was bought on a boating trip to a remote South Asian island. Bali is a nice suggestion. Anywhere in Indonesia or the Philippines will work.

She won’t see it as a piece of cheap jewelry. Girls have great imaginations. She’ll be thinking of how great it would be to go boating with this smart, rich, successful man, not about whether the piece of jewelry is any good. If it falls apart, you can just shrug. It’s not your fault it wasn’t well-made.

It’s best if you have a story ready before you give it to her. Don’t go overboard and say some kid gave it to you as a reward from saving him from drowning or anything. Stick to something believable, like that you were out boating all day and stopped at a little island and saw a local market.

The authenticity is key.

If you can sell this jewelry as a piece of your life, instead of just a piece of plastic and shells, you’ve got her right where you want her. She’ll be too busy thinking about the cool places you two can go, the life she could live, and the amazing things she’ll get to see and do to focus on exactly what kind of jewelry you gave her.

Some good choices include bracelets, necklaces, and earrings. To be adventurous, go for an anklet or toe rings. These seem a little more exotic and interesting to a girl that comes from a background without much culture or money

The Truth About Older Men Love Dating Younger Women

This montwomenoldermenh Austin-based profressional matchamker and relationship expert Julia McCurley weighs in on what we all see among the wealthy: younger women attracted to older men. Long a staple in many cultures, McCurley examines the basis of how it really works.

The first thought that comes to many women’s minds when they think of older men dating younger women is that men might only be interested in eye candy and in perpetuating the illusion of their own youth. For some men, this may be true, yet I have found that the attraction is a little more complicated than that.

Older men love dating younger women because of three primary reasons.

1. Younger women may be more sexually attractive to them.

2, Younger women help older men feel more youthful.

3. Younger women idolize older men and do not call them on their issues like an older woman might.

These are all the stereotypical reasons that come to mind to some people think older men love to date younger woman. According to famed psycholigist Abraham Maslow, there are five basic human needs experienced to varying degrees by all of us. However, some of us have higher needs than others genetically at different developmental stages in our lives. Here is some food for thought in regards to that.

First is the survival need, which encompasses the need to stay alive with food, clothing and shelter but it also includes the psychological needs to feel safe and secure. Younger women are often looking for a sense of security that an older man can provide. Older men love dating younger women because the level of security they can offer a younger woman satisfies her in ways it might not an older partner he might seek.

The next need is connection. We all have a need to be connected to other people. Some of us need that more than others. This is a need that is different for men and women at different stages in their lives. Young adult women typically have a larger need for connection. While they will create careers, their main focus is their relationship and creating a family. Young adult men, on the other hand, are most focused on the need for significance. They have relationships and start families but their primary focus is figuring out a way to make it in the world. In young adult relationships, these needs are often in conflict, as the woman wants more intimacy and quality time and the younger man is instead focused on work and building his career.

The next need is freedom. People with high freedom needs do best in relationships with someone else who also possesses a high freedom need. Another reason older men love dating youger women is because even though she is focused on connection, she might be willing to allow an older man freedom in exchange for the security and the attention he gives her when they are together. This ofte creates a win/win arrangement for both.

The fourth need is fun. A younger woman still has a keen sense of energetic fun whereas an older woman may have transitioned into meeting her fun need with her children or having a quieter kind of fun. This younger, energetic kind of fun is attractive to an older man who may be feeling his mortality and seeking a bit more fun than he’s had in his past relationships.

Older men date younger women for many reasons. Some of the relationships last, some don’t. Here’s why.

1. Fantasy love fades. Usually within a year. At first, the older man is in love with her looks and youthful spirit. Eventually, he realizes all they have in common is a roof over their heads, and he’ll be off to look for a relationship with substance he might not thought he found with a younger woman.

2. Older men may say they feel younger, but dating younger women won’t make them younger. No matter how hard older men try to make the wrinkles disappear, the darn things keep showing up in the mirror.

3. Older men and younger women utilize each other, similar to a business arrangement. He has money, assets, power, and security; she has youth and beauty. If the money runs out, or someone richer comes along, she may break the lease, leaving him with an empty wallet and his arms around a tree trying to survive the storm the relationship may have created.

4. OK, maybe she’s not using him. Perhaps she loves him because he’s more patient, laid back, mature, gentle, and understanding than men her age. Still, she’s likely considered his financial attribute at some point. Rarely do I see younger women with destitute older men. Do you?

What matters most to all people is love, no matter what the age or circumstance. With more love in your life, there will be more life in your love.

Why some women prefer Older Men for Dating or Marriage

8287570_f260_副本There are many celebrity married couples where the man is old enough to be the father of the woman. Whether it is younger woman dating older man, older women dating younger men or women getting attracted to already married men, society does not look kindly at the woman in such relationships. Those women are often branded as gold diggers, cougars or the other woman whereas the man in the relationship would be called a ‘stud’ or ‘hero’. While I am not supportive of those ladies who ruin the homes of other woman or those men who leave their wives for younger women, I would give the benefit of doubt for those single women in the other categories that they may have been genuinely in love.

Reasons Why some women prefer Older Men for Dating or Marriage

There may be many reasons why a younger woman may prefer to choose an older man. Some of them can be because

  • They may be more matured and responsible.
  • Older men mostly have established Careers or Business which gives the financial stability and comforts a lady desire.
  • Older men tend to be more caring and may pamper her more and also be an authority figure in her life who takes change of things better.
  • They are more reliable and disciplined compared to their young counterparts.
  • They also seem to be more devoted to their partners and normally do not run around flirting or sleeping around with several women.
  • They are more sexually experienced and know to please their partner.
  • They are also knowledgeable because of their own experiences about what makes a relationship work and do not commit the mistakes younger men does.
  • An Older Man may not possess the energy of his younger counterpart and thereby need not be pleased sexually on a daily basis which most woman consider as a positive thing.
  • He also may not want children from you as he might already have some which is definitely a plus for a career oriented woman.
  • He is more knowledgeable because of his age and because of this wisdom he can teach her and make her feel more secure and confident.

If it is not his Qualities which make a younger woman drawn to him then may beshe is genuinely in love with him. And love is blind, isn’t it? If it is not love that has attracted her to him then may be she is a Gold Digger who is after his money. What do you think?

10 Advantages Of Dating Older Men

screen-shot-2015-01-11-at-1-02-34-pmYoung women often get tired of the let down that comes from dating men their age. There are too many fleeting, career-minded gents who are simply looking to have a little fun until they are ready to have a genuine relationship. Although society generally accepts the younger woman/older man duo, these relationships can be taboo. But what do we do when men our age are constantly letting us down? If you’re tired of waiting around for a “good guy,” you might want to explore another age group: the older man. Here are 10 things you can expect from these ripe gents:

He knows he is

You will know who he is and what he wants right from the get go. He knows what he likes and doesn’t like, but he is open minded enough to go with the flow. His ease and confidence will be a breath of fresh air.

He doesn’t mind the bush

Goodbye shaving, waxing and plucking. Older men grew up in a different generation when the bush was sexy. He’ll go down on you without question. You’ll feel more like a “natural woman” which will be liberating and free. He appreciates your girl parts just the way they are.

He is financially secure

Older men are financially secure. Even if they are not rich, they know where there money is, and this won’t be an issue. You won’t have to worry about contributing to the bill even on the 5th date. If you choose to, it’s because YOU CHOOSE TO out of fairness and equality, not because his courtship grace period is over.

You will never hear, “I have to focus on my career right now”

The older man is settled. He has made a career in this field or the other. He is free to focus on you, his interests and desires and, eventually, your mutual plans. How liberating would it be to be with a man who can focus on the relationship irrespective of whatever else is going on in his life?
If you are indecisive, he’ll choose (and it’ll be great)

Older men have been around the block. They know great places to eat, drink and socialize. No more walking around the East Village for an hour trying to figure out where to sit down for a good conversation.

Sex will be like making love each time

No more questioning whether or not he’ll hold your hand or introduce you to his friends. Sex will be intimate. He will kiss you, look you in the eyes when he’s inside you and tell you how beautiful you are. He will know how to touch you so that you enjoy sex just as much as he does. He will appreciate each time he gets to sleep with you because he looks at it as an experience, not an adventure.

He appreciates your depth

Older men genuinely enjoy good conversation. It is not an arbitrary dating ritual. He wants to hear about your career, ideas and adventures. It turns him on just as much as your physical appearance. So speak up on these dates!

He appreciates your youth

Confident older men want to keep in the now. They want to surround themselves with vibrant people because it keeps them youthful. When people approach middle age, it is easy to coast through life and be comfortable with what they’ve built for themselves. If a man is dating a younger woman, chances are he is looking to maintain his youth. You keep them feeling alive and inspired which, in return, makes you feel deeply desired.

He knows how to handle his family

It can be tricky introducing your significant other to the family for the first time especially if you’ve only done it once or twice before. Older men are well aware of their family’s dynamics, and he knows how to navigate through landmines and awkwardness when a new spouse is introduced. You won’t feel the pressure because he’ll be like a magician, handling the tough nuances without you even knowing he’s doing it.
He will show you places and things you never thought existed

With age comes experience. This is no secret. If you have an adventurous spirit and you’re curious about the world, let him show you the ropes. You may find yourself in a country you didn’t even know was on the map or in a workman’s shop that makes customary doorknobs for country homes. The older man doesn’t just know the streets of your city; he knows the back alleys as well. Let him show you the world.

If you find yourself uninspired by the oh-so familiar dating dynamics of your age group, try an older gent. This may not be the guy you see yourself marrying and having kids with, but it’ll sure be a low-risk adventure that you’ll never forget. TC mark

Is Dating Younger Women Good?

It is an accepted fact that women prefer resource and stability, while men prefer youth and beauty. Most people think that older men date younger women because they are going through a mid-life crisis. But there may be another reason to this mutual attraction. Women mature faster than men, and they find men of their own age immature when compared to the suave, world-weary older man. Men are attracted to younger women because there is less of a power struggle in the relationship. Everybody will know who wears the pants in their relationship and this satisfies his innate macho pride. A younger woman will be more malleable and the relationship will be easygoing. She will not nag him to commit or be responsible, unlike women his age. In return, he pampers and protects her. Of course there are plenty of gold-diggers and cradle-snatchers out there. But if neither of the partners have ulterior motives, this could be a match made in heaven.
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Let us examine whether dating a younger woman is a good idea.
Maturity Level
Women find that older men have a maturity level that is significantly higher than those in her age group. Older men who have a higher level of maturity will also be more willing to make a commitment or settle down than men her age. Older men find the immaturity of younger women refreshing and attractive, when compared to women their age who are tied down with responsibilities and constant worries.
Physical Benefits
A younger woman will always be more active than her older counterpart. She may partake in numerous strenuous physical activities. The older man will also take up these sports to keep up with her, and this will lead to numerous health benefits for him. He will be less prone to disease, have a toned body and a healthier heart.
Refreshing Perspectives
A younger woman provides a fresh outlook of the world, which will be enchanting and charming. The older man might be cynical and world-weary, and will be attracted to her zest for life. The enthusiasm of a younger woman will be infectious, and the older man will feel young at heart.
Less Baggage
A younger woman always has less emotional baggage than a woman his own age. Older women tend to be more wary and distrustful of men in general. Years of dating would have hardened her attitude towards men. But young women will be more open and are less likely to have murky past relationships.
Connection
An older man will connect more to a younger woman. They might want the same things in life, like a family, which men her age are not willing to offer her. An older woman will be too tied down with her responsibilities, juggling work and family, to have a proper relationship. A younger woman will be at her sexual prime, which is appealing to the older man. She craves stability and maturity, which he offers her. Thus, the connection between an older man and a younger woman is stronger.
Ego Boosts
A younger woman is an affirmation that an older man is still physically and emotionally appealing. The fact that he is desired by a younger woman and seen as a potential partner will act as a huge ego boost to the older man. Young women also tend to be less judgemental and critical of the older man. Thus, we see that dating a younger woman is good for the older man as it boosts his ego, improves his health and lets him have a deep connection with he

Why Older Men Dating Younger Women

465073643-630x419There are several reasons why the concept of older men dating younger women is so popular in today’s culture.

For some men, the reasons are purely superficial. They enjoy having the beauty of a young woman around and feel they will experience a more adventurous sex life.

In terms of stature, an older man who shows up at a social function with a younger woman on his arm often feels a sense of pride and accomplishment. He has a piece of “eye candy” that other men might admire.

Other older men like dating younger women because the women bring out a sense of youth in their personality. While dating a younger woman, he may feel he is getting involved with more youthful activities that help him to feel invigorated and young again himself.

This is also an instinctual feeling as procreation plays a factor. Men intuitively want to spread their “seeds” to future generations. The best way to do this is to find a young woman who has many childbearing years left.

For women, the older man can be attractive when he presents himself as a more mature partner. After the college years, some women start to feel tired of the same old behaviors they find the men in their age group still enjoying.

As a result, they seek out older men who act with more sophistication and class. These men may be worldly, financially secure, and over many of the games they played in their younger years.

On the other hand, the women might be feeling the maternal instincts kicking in and want to start a family soon. Older men are more likely to settle down sooner and begin a family.