Closing The Deal: From First Date To Sex QUICK

When done right this should be pretty easy.

The hardest part of the process when learning how to be a sugar daddy is setting up your profile properly to attract these young and hot women in their 20s who want to hook up with older, more experienced, established men – using online dating sites for just that purpose.

However, a lot of guys seem to think that getting a girl from a first date to first sex. If you’ve followed this guide, closing the deal should be pretty easy.

Of the three of us guys, we’ve had very few issues moving from the hotel bar to our places when we want to move from talking to sex. Girls on sugar daddy websites know what they’re signing up for, and they know what the guys they meet are looking for. You’re bringing the experience and charm to the table: they’re bringing the sex.

Once you realize that they’re coming to the bar with sex already in mind, approach the evening that way. Be confident. Never forget for a second that this is going to lead to her coming back to your place.

Don’t tell her you’re assuming sex.

Remember, the thing these girls are most afraid of is that the man is just using them for sex. What you want to do is act confident, self-assured. There’s no reason this can’t lead to sex on the first meeting if you like the girl and she’s as hot as her picture.

She’s more nervous about impressing you than you are about impressing her.

She has to impress you with her beauty and her willingness. If you don’t like what she’s offering, you have a hundred more choices on the same website where you found her—and she knows that already.

Don’t sell yourself short, and don’t assume she won’t be into going back to your place on the first date. Chances are, she will.

Have a story ready.

Is your apartment up to snuff with the kind of man who goes yachting on weekends? Yeah, ours either. Remember, you don’t actually have to be a millionaire to score with the girls on sugar daddy websites when you’re looking up how to be a sugar daddy.

The story we use is that we have two places in the city. She’s offering her beauty and youth, and you’re offering your lifestyle. You want this girl to be in love with your lifestyle, and think about how cool it would be to have two places in the city to live in.

Then, you should tell her that your main place in this city, the one you usually spend time in, has been occupied by guests. This again gives the impression that you’re a busy, important person who has dozens of contacts all making demands on your time. It also gives her the option to make it feel like she’s choosing to spend time with you and you alone.

Tell her that it’s fine, because your second place in the city has whatever cool collection or item you’re using as bait. If you’ve actually been boating or traveling or whatever, items and pictures from travel work great for this. Pets wok well, too. “Come and meet my dog” or fish or whatever is great—make her feel like she’s special by bringing her to the place you spend your time, the one you consider your home.

Another nice item to show off is a vintage collection of some kind, or a very special bottle of wine. She probably won’t know much about wine, so you can get away with making up some bullshit about a bottle if you know how to make it sound fancy.

First Meet-Up: Where Is The Best Place To Take Your Young Chick On A First Date

When setting up a meeting between an older man and a younger woman, it’s important to know where to take her. If you decide to meet somewhere uncool or sketchy, she’ll probably never show up—and if she does show, she’s not the kind of girl you want to meet anyway.

Where is the best place to take a sugar baby?

The best place to take a sugar baby is a hotel bar. Keep it local—don’t make her feel afraid by asking her to meet somewhere out of her comfort zone. If you can, make sure it’s a 4 or 5 star hotel. This is a nice way to bring a lot of ambiance to the meeting with very little effort.

This is also a good way of having a drink at a bar, which girls are used to, but taking it out of her expectations. Most girls in their 20s don’t get taken to fancy hotel bars very often. Immediately, this puts the playing field in your favor, because she’ll be nervous and excited to be there.

Remember who you’re competing against: frat guys who would rather chug beer and don’t know how to order a nice martini.

Have a drink before she gets there.

This will help to calm your nerves. It also makes it look like you’re a man who can hold his liquor, not a drunk like the guys she’s usually used to going out with on a Friday night.

Remember your competition.

The best these girls can usually do, their next option after you, is a BUM guy. These guys can maybe afford to buy her a Bud Light during happy hour, and you’re sitting in a fancy hotel bar stirring a fancy drink. Whatever you order, do it confidently, though you shouldn’t over-drink.

You can do this. Don’t be afraid, your competition is off playing beer pong and doing chest-bumps with some other frat dude over football. The girls you’re meeting are the ones who are sick of these idiots. They want to find a real man who’s as different from those guys as possible. Already you’re in the lead, because you’re a totally different kind of guy. She wants that. Don’t feel insecure about your age.

Your age is why she wants you.

Older guys who try to act young are just pathetic, and no girl wants to date them. An older guy who acts refined and experienced, on the other hand, is something that drives girls nuts. Be the experienced guy who knows a thing or two about the world, not the sad old fart.

She is WAY more nervous than you are.

The girl you are meeting is younger, less mature, and in way over her head and out of her league…and she knows it. This is your KEY ADVANTAGE. She is coming to the table knowing that all she has is her looks, so she’ll probably be very nervous.

Don’t fuck it up.

Be confident. LEAD her. The flow of the conversation is up to you—it’s all in your court to seal the deal.

Sugar Baby Gift Etiquette: Get Her Gifts That Look Expensive & Exotic On A Shoestring Budget

0-oo2NbYKq0m6QMkgqNow we’re into the part that makes a lot of men leery of trying to meet younger women. The parts about meeting and impressing a girl are all well and good, but what do you do when it comes to actually giving the kinds of gifts that sugar babies will expect? After all, you did meet her on a sugar daddie dating website!

We’ve got you covered.

It is totally possible to give a nice gift that looks excellent, exotic, and hard to find to your sugar baby. The trick is remembering that the girls you’re meeting aren’t just there for the money—they’re coming for the experience, the lifestyle, the feeling of dating an older, successful, experienced, refined man exactly like you are.

You’re giving the experience—not the money.

With that in mind, it makes it a lot easier to get your sugar baby something that speaks of everything you want to convey about your life. Here’s how you go about getting her a gift.

Go to etsy.com.

If you don’t know etsy, it’s a site where people can sell their handmade crap. A lot of them do custom work.

Jewelry is always the best idea. This is true for buying things for sugar babies, and it doesn’t really matter what kind you get. You can get stuff for really cheap, usually under $10, that looks exotic and interesting.

It doesn’t have to look fancy.

Remember, it’s all about the attitude, and the lifestyle you’re selling. A collection of beads and shells and cheap stones is fine, as long as it doesn’t look mass-produced. Now, after you find the jewelry for probably about the same price as a good cup of coffee, here’s the important part.

Sell her a story.

Tell her that the jewelry was bought on a boating trip to a remote South Asian island. Bali is a nice suggestion. Anywhere in Indonesia or the Philippines will work.

She won’t see it as a piece of cheap jewelry. Girls have great imaginations. She’ll be thinking of how great it would be to go boating with this smart, rich, successful man, not about whether the piece of jewelry is any good. If it falls apart, you can just shrug. It’s not your fault it wasn’t well-made.

It’s best if you have a story ready before you give it to her. Don’t go overboard and say some kid gave it to you as a reward from saving him from drowning or anything. Stick to something believable, like that you were out boating all day and stopped at a little island and saw a local market.

The authenticity is key.

If you can sell this jewelry as a piece of your life, instead of just a piece of plastic and shells, you’ve got her right where you want her. She’ll be too busy thinking about the cool places you two can go, the life she could live, and the amazing things she’ll get to see and do to focus on exactly what kind of jewelry you gave her.

Some good choices include bracelets, necklaces, and earrings. To be adventurous, go for an anklet or toe rings. These seem a little more exotic and interesting to a girl that comes from a background without much culture or money

Is Dating Younger Women Good?

It is an accepted fact that women prefer resource and stability, while men prefer youth and beauty. Most people think that older men date younger women because they are going through a mid-life crisis. But there may be another reason to this mutual attraction. Women mature faster than men, and they find men of their own age immature when compared to the suave, world-weary older man. Men are attracted to younger women because there is less of a power struggle in the relationship. Everybody will know who wears the pants in their relationship and this satisfies his innate macho pride. A younger woman will be more malleable and the relationship will be easygoing. She will not nag him to commit or be responsible, unlike women his age. In return, he pampers and protects her. Of course there are plenty of gold-diggers and cradle-snatchers out there. But if neither of the partners have ulterior motives, this could be a match made in heaven.
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Let us examine whether dating a younger woman is a good idea.
Maturity Level
Women find that older men have a maturity level that is significantly higher than those in her age group. Older men who have a higher level of maturity will also be more willing to make a commitment or settle down than men her age. Older men find the immaturity of younger women refreshing and attractive, when compared to women their age who are tied down with responsibilities and constant worries.
Physical Benefits
A younger woman will always be more active than her older counterpart. She may partake in numerous strenuous physical activities. The older man will also take up these sports to keep up with her, and this will lead to numerous health benefits for him. He will be less prone to disease, have a toned body and a healthier heart.
Refreshing Perspectives
A younger woman provides a fresh outlook of the world, which will be enchanting and charming. The older man might be cynical and world-weary, and will be attracted to her zest for life. The enthusiasm of a younger woman will be infectious, and the older man will feel young at heart.
Less Baggage
A younger woman always has less emotional baggage than a woman his own age. Older women tend to be more wary and distrustful of men in general. Years of dating would have hardened her attitude towards men. But young women will be more open and are less likely to have murky past relationships.
Connection
An older man will connect more to a younger woman. They might want the same things in life, like a family, which men her age are not willing to offer her. An older woman will be too tied down with her responsibilities, juggling work and family, to have a proper relationship. A younger woman will be at her sexual prime, which is appealing to the older man. She craves stability and maturity, which he offers her. Thus, the connection between an older man and a younger woman is stronger.
Ego Boosts
A younger woman is an affirmation that an older man is still physically and emotionally appealing. The fact that he is desired by a younger woman and seen as a potential partner will act as a huge ego boost to the older man. Young women also tend to be less judgemental and critical of the older man. Thus, we see that dating a younger woman is good for the older man as it boosts his ego, improves his health and lets him have a deep connection with he

Why Older Men Dating Younger Women

465073643-630x419There are several reasons why the concept of older men dating younger women is so popular in today’s culture.

For some men, the reasons are purely superficial. They enjoy having the beauty of a young woman around and feel they will experience a more adventurous sex life.

In terms of stature, an older man who shows up at a social function with a younger woman on his arm often feels a sense of pride and accomplishment. He has a piece of “eye candy” that other men might admire.

Other older men like dating younger women because the women bring out a sense of youth in their personality. While dating a younger woman, he may feel he is getting involved with more youthful activities that help him to feel invigorated and young again himself.

This is also an instinctual feeling as procreation plays a factor. Men intuitively want to spread their “seeds” to future generations. The best way to do this is to find a young woman who has many childbearing years left.

For women, the older man can be attractive when he presents himself as a more mature partner. After the college years, some women start to feel tired of the same old behaviors they find the men in their age group still enjoying.

As a result, they seek out older men who act with more sophistication and class. These men may be worldly, financially secure, and over many of the games they played in their younger years.

On the other hand, the women might be feeling the maternal instincts kicking in and want to start a family soon. Older men are more likely to settle down sooner and begin a family.