Closing The Deal: From First Date To Sex QUICK

When done right this should be pretty easy.

The hardest part of the process when learning how to be a sugar daddy is setting up your profile properly to attract these young and hot women in their 20s who want to hook up with older, more experienced, established men – using online dating sites for just that purpose.

However, a lot of guys seem to think that getting a girl from a first date to first sex. If you’ve followed this guide, closing the deal should be pretty easy.

Of the three of us guys, we’ve had very few issues moving from the hotel bar to our places when we want to move from talking to sex. Girls on sugar daddy websites know what they’re signing up for, and they know what the guys they meet are looking for. You’re bringing the experience and charm to the table: they’re bringing the sex.

Once you realize that they’re coming to the bar with sex already in mind, approach the evening that way. Be confident. Never forget for a second that this is going to lead to her coming back to your place.

Don’t tell her you’re assuming sex.

Remember, the thing these girls are most afraid of is that the man is just using them for sex. What you want to do is act confident, self-assured. There’s no reason this can’t lead to sex on the first meeting if you like the girl and she’s as hot as her picture.

She’s more nervous about impressing you than you are about impressing her.

She has to impress you with her beauty and her willingness. If you don’t like what she’s offering, you have a hundred more choices on the same website where you found her—and she knows that already.

Don’t sell yourself short, and don’t assume she won’t be into going back to your place on the first date. Chances are, she will.

Have a story ready.

Is your apartment up to snuff with the kind of man who goes yachting on weekends? Yeah, ours either. Remember, you don’t actually have to be a millionaire to score with the girls on sugar daddy websites when you’re looking up how to be a sugar daddy.

The story we use is that we have two places in the city. She’s offering her beauty and youth, and you’re offering your lifestyle. You want this girl to be in love with your lifestyle, and think about how cool it would be to have two places in the city to live in.

Then, you should tell her that your main place in this city, the one you usually spend time in, has been occupied by guests. This again gives the impression that you’re a busy, important person who has dozens of contacts all making demands on your time. It also gives her the option to make it feel like she’s choosing to spend time with you and you alone.

Tell her that it’s fine, because your second place in the city has whatever cool collection or item you’re using as bait. If you’ve actually been boating or traveling or whatever, items and pictures from travel work great for this. Pets wok well, too. “Come and meet my dog” or fish or whatever is great—make her feel like she’s special by bringing her to the place you spend your time, the one you consider your home.

Another nice item to show off is a vintage collection of some kind, or a very special bottle of wine. She probably won’t know much about wine, so you can get away with making up some bullshit about a bottle if you know how to make it sound fancy.

The Rules For Interacting With Young Sugar Babies

So you have your profile all set up, you have an “about me” page, you have a photo of you looking dashing in a suit or on a tropical vacation. Next comes the most important part: actually interacting with the sugar babies.

This is the most critical phase of closing the deal.

Even if a girl loves everything she sees on your profile (and she will), she’ll want to know if you seem to be like your profile on first contact. Follow our rules for talking to the sugar babies, and these rules of dating a younger girl will help you make sure you can hook up with these hot younger women.

Here is your advantage.

Unlike on match.com, eharmony, and a bunch of other “find love” websites, the girls on sites where older men can meet young and beautiful women know that their most important contribution is their looks. They know the men they’re looking to meet want someone young and beautiful, and they know they won’t be able to make up for a butterface with a so-called “great personality.” They know the men on these sites are only there to meet the young and beautiful women, and they’re okay with that.

Unlike on most dating sites, the women on these sites expect a certain level of being sexualized and objectified. You don’t want to be the guy that only demands naked pictures, but you don’t want to go too far into being a “nice guy” either. Nothing tells a woman a guy will be an easy meal ticket like bending over backwards to please someone you barely know.

Girls on these sites are less prissy.

Regular dating sites are full of girls who just want to be treated like a princess and spoiled, but they also have a huge laundry list of what they want men to be like, look like, and sound like before they’re willing to meet. This isn’t the case with younger women looking to meet older, established, more refined men most of the time.

They are worried about just being used.

Make sure you can make her feel like a princess. That’s what most of the girls on these websites want, underneath the ones who just want a quick buck or gifts of cash. They want to feel cherished and protected and spoiled, like a fairytale dream come true. It’s not that hard to make them feel that way with very little effort.

Remember that you’re the prize. Be charming and sensual.

When you interact with these girls, comment on their pics—“I love the dress,” or “Your hair really frames your face like that” are nice lines that say you’re paying attention, not just looking for a set of tits and ass to take to a local diner.

Make sure to sound like you’re being hounded by girls on the site.

Women are ferocious in competition. Give her a reason to feel like she has to act now, or she’ll lose you to another girl if she waits.

Move to texting quickly.

You want to show that you can keep up with a younger, more modern crowd. Texting frequently shows that you’re an older, refined man, but not an “old man.” Here are some good lines to use on the sugar babies over texting.

  • “What are you wearing right now? I like visuals. Describe it.”
  • “Sorry, I was on a call with some bankers in Dubai. What’s going on?”
  • “You seem to be unusual for the kind of girls on here. Am I wrong?”
  • “I bet you smell sexy…I loooooove a woma’s smell….it’s the gateway to sensuality.”
  • “I can’t meet till next Tuesday, I’m in Chile/Brazil meeting some folks.”

These lines convey an easy sensuality and confidence, and establish that you’re a busy professional who may be willing to fit her into your life, if she’s good enough.

Understanding The Sugar Daddy Dating Site Mathematical Advantage

When you’re playing the dating game, it can often feel like there are a hundred horny guys for every hot girl. This is NOT the case when it comes to women looking for older men.

The odds are in your favor.

There are more women looking for older men than there are older men looking for younger women, which means you have the advantage of the playing field. You get to pick and choose which girls you want to go after, instead of the other way around.

Women are biologically programmed to be attracted to power.

If you learn how to exude confidence, masculinity, and an air of competent established aloofness, these women will flock to you. In older days, men of power were the leaders in their villages, and being with them was a huge element of protection for any woman. Times might have changed, but it’s still very similar. There’s a reason so many famous, powerful older men wind up with hot women decades younger than them.

The myth about sugar daddy dating sites is that women are attracted to men with money. While some women do want a quick payout, they’re not what you’re looking for—they’re basically just the escorts and hookers we warned you about earlier.

Ever wonder how Larry King, Bill Clinton, and George Clooney can get women decades younger than them? Even when some of these older guys aren’t traditionally attractive at all?

Once you learn what women on these sites are actually looking for, we’ll help you give it to them. If you set up your profile correctly (learn how to set up your sugar daddy dating website profile and how to create your sugar daddy dating profile picture), you won’t be the one doing the chasing.

The girls will be coming after you.

It sounds like a myth, but it’s true. We’ve personally tested these sites ourselves, and we know how to get girls to be attracted to the confidence and personality behind the profile. There’s one very big secret about the younger women on these websites that you have to understand if you want to score big with these hot girls.

It’s not all about the money.

Even though money is a big part of it, the kind of girl that gets on these websites, looking for older men, is not just looking for a man to buy her things. These are NOT professional hookers. It’s easy to filter the hookers out, once you know how to look for them. What you have to learn how to do is see beneath the exterior, that these are girls who just want cash and gifts, because in reality….

They want to be treated like a true princess.

Most of these girls don’t care that much about the money. They want to feel like they’re having an experience that only a special, exciting girl can have. They mostly grew up poor, and all their lives, they’ve been watching TV shows like “Lifestyles of the Rich and Famous.” They’ve never thought that they could actually have that life for themselves, and it’s your job to make them feel like they’re having it.

You are the fantasy.

Even if it seems like the girl is the one fulfilling your fantasy of hooking up with a young, gorgeous woman, for the girl, it’s the other way around. You’re the one fulfilling her fantasy of being with a man with class, a man that commands respect. They know they won’t meet a real billionaire. They just want to feel like a princess.

How To Describe Yourself To Attract Younger Women

You’ve already read up on how to create your online profile to attract sugar babies, and also the guide on how to make sure your profile picture works for you. The rest of your profile is just as important. This is essential for striking that balance between the nice guy and the jerk that we mentioned earlier.

Keep your tone consistent.

Women can tell immediately if you’re wishy-washy. They’ll think they can use that to get your money and get away. To avoid this, remember to stay confident when you’re writing. Reread everything you’ve written afterwards. If it sounds like a guy you would look up to, a guy whose life you want, that’s a good thing.

Be authoritative.

Don’t try to sugar-coat things on your sugar daddy dating site profile. Come right out and state the specific things you like in a girl. Don’t get too nitpicky (like insisting on the exact measurements or where she’s from), because you don’t want to risk the girl feeling like she’s just a “type.”

Be the prize.

The mechanical advantage of being a sugar daddy on these websites is huge. There are three women for every man on some of them, like sugardaddymeet.com. which means you can have your pick. Don’t sound desperate, because you don’t need to be. Have a confident tone, and act like the prize you are in this game. Women will be fighting over you.

Be very busy.

This is especially important for later on in the game, as well as right at first. One of the most important things for you to mention when describing yourself on your sugar daddy dating profile is that you’re a very busy man. This helps lend you the air of competency and refinement that is so important for an older man dating younger women. Anything that helps you seem more experienced and exotic is what we’re looking for.

Also important is that if you say upfront you’re very busy, the girl will know that she has to try and fit herself into your life and schedule, not the other way around.

Mention that you travel frequently for business. This says in no uncertain terms that you won’t have much time for a relationship, and the girl will feel that it’s in her best interests to get you while she can. This is basically the equivalent of playing somewhat hard to get—you’re open to meeting women, this tone of voice says, as long as they’re coming to offer something. You don’t need to meet women who are looking for someone to pay their way in their own life—you want to meet the ones who want to be part of a larger, more exciting relationship. Being busy and traveling will help filter out the worst girls from your lists of possibles.

It’s important to know how to talk about women on your dating profile for these sites. Even if everything else is right, if you don’t nail this aspect of your profile, you might as well not bother. Remember to keep your tone confident and authoritative. Mention that you love women, and that you love spending time with them. You love getting to know great women, but your busy schedule and exciting life makes it difficult to meet them as often as you’d like.

Remember the age you’re dealing with.

Don’t just say that you like meeting great women. Also mention that you like meeting girls and helping them to become great women. Let them think about what they could turn into with your guidance, running around the world and living a fabulous, refined life on your arm. This is the image you want to project on your sugar daddy dating profile, and it is absolutely essential when you’re an older man dating younger women.

Avoid Sugar Daddy Dating Scams Online

There are a lot of older guys who would do really well on sugar daddy dating sites, but they never go on those sites. One of the reasons, besides not having the right mindset for dating younger women, is because they’re afraid of scams.

It turns out, you’re totally right to be wary. A lot—and we mean a lot—of sugar daddy dating sites are basically just scams.

Just because many of the sites are scams doesn’t mean sugar daddy sites aren’t worth checking out.

You just need a guide to help you figure out which sites are real, and which are scams. One of the main reasons we made this site is because we kept getting scammed, and found out how to spot and avoid these online dating scams that are particular to sugar daddy websites.

What are some common sugar daddy dating scams?

The most popular scam is that instead of a hot younger girl looking for an older, established, refined guy, the girl will be a hooker or escort. This is really common. In fact, about 90% of the sugar daddy dating sites on the Internet are full of escorts and hookers, just trying to scam a quick john off of the sites, and they don’t even bother to hide it.

Another common scam is the fake profile.

These are also hookers and escorts, but these are the ones you want to watch out for most of all. Usually these have profiles set up by a pimp or madam, and they’re all done by Nigerian typists about ten thousand miles from any girl you might want to meet.

Fake pictures are pretty common.

We can teach you in our guide to avoiding scams on sugar daddy dating websites how to spot fake profiles and fake pictures. This can help you avoid really ugly hookers that use fake pictures, then hope the guys that show up are too desperate to leave without paying.

A lot of the girls on these websites are fat ugly girls with no life and a Wal-Mart job. Would you go home and fantasize about those girls? No? Then don’t settle for them on a sugar daddy website.

Our guide can help you get genuinely attractive women in their 20s

You don’t have to settle for the kind of scams sugar daddy websites offer. We’ll help you filter out the scam websites, and make sure you present yourself well enough that actual hot younger women are trying to date you.

In our guide, we filtered out all the websites that are chock-full of fat ugly girls and hookers and escorts. It’s easy to do, and we’ll show you how to make sure your lists are full of sexy women in their 20s who want to hook up with you.

Even if sugar daddy websites have a lot of hookers and escorts, and a lot of girls you wouldn’t ask out on the street, they can still be a gold mine for really hot girls looking for established, refined older men (don’t think of yourself as old, think of yourself as established and refined).

We can tell you how to filter these scams out in one minute.

It’s easier than you think to spot these girls. Let them take someone else for a ride. If you want to meet girls and hook up with them instead of emptying your wallet, keep reading this guide to learn how to filter out sugar daddy dating scams.

We can show you how to make sure the only girls that show up on your list are real hot younger women in their 20s who have a real liking for men in their 40s and older, and actually want to hook up with them.

Sugar Baby Gift Etiquette: Get Her Gifts That Look Expensive & Exotic On A Shoestring Budget

0-oo2NbYKq0m6QMkgqNow we’re into the part that makes a lot of men leery of trying to meet younger women. The parts about meeting and impressing a girl are all well and good, but what do you do when it comes to actually giving the kinds of gifts that sugar babies will expect? After all, you did meet her on a sugar daddie dating website!

We’ve got you covered.

It is totally possible to give a nice gift that looks excellent, exotic, and hard to find to your sugar baby. The trick is remembering that the girls you’re meeting aren’t just there for the money—they’re coming for the experience, the lifestyle, the feeling of dating an older, successful, experienced, refined man exactly like you are.

You’re giving the experience—not the money.

With that in mind, it makes it a lot easier to get your sugar baby something that speaks of everything you want to convey about your life. Here’s how you go about getting her a gift.

Go to etsy.com.

If you don’t know etsy, it’s a site where people can sell their handmade crap. A lot of them do custom work.

Jewelry is always the best idea. This is true for buying things for sugar babies, and it doesn’t really matter what kind you get. You can get stuff for really cheap, usually under $10, that looks exotic and interesting.

It doesn’t have to look fancy.

Remember, it’s all about the attitude, and the lifestyle you’re selling. A collection of beads and shells and cheap stones is fine, as long as it doesn’t look mass-produced. Now, after you find the jewelry for probably about the same price as a good cup of coffee, here’s the important part.

Sell her a story.

Tell her that the jewelry was bought on a boating trip to a remote South Asian island. Bali is a nice suggestion. Anywhere in Indonesia or the Philippines will work.

She won’t see it as a piece of cheap jewelry. Girls have great imaginations. She’ll be thinking of how great it would be to go boating with this smart, rich, successful man, not about whether the piece of jewelry is any good. If it falls apart, you can just shrug. It’s not your fault it wasn’t well-made.

It’s best if you have a story ready before you give it to her. Don’t go overboard and say some kid gave it to you as a reward from saving him from drowning or anything. Stick to something believable, like that you were out boating all day and stopped at a little island and saw a local market.

The authenticity is key.

If you can sell this jewelry as a piece of your life, instead of just a piece of plastic and shells, you’ve got her right where you want her. She’ll be too busy thinking about the cool places you two can go, the life she could live, and the amazing things she’ll get to see and do to focus on exactly what kind of jewelry you gave her.

Some good choices include bracelets, necklaces, and earrings. To be adventurous, go for an anklet or toe rings. These seem a little more exotic and interesting to a girl that comes from a background without much culture or money

What You’re Looking To Come Off As On Sugar Daddy

QQ图片20170310102622The first thing you need to get in order isn’t your profile, or your picture, or what you’re going to wear. The first thing you have to deal with is very simple:You have to get your mindset in the game.
A lot of guys over the age of 40 have problems seeing themselves as being real contenders for the affections of hot women in their 20s. The problem, first of all, is that these guys see themselves as “old.”
Stop that.
You’re only old if you think you are. When you want to start dating younger women, don’t think of yourself as old. Think of yourself as “refined.” Younger girls love “refined” guys.
Another way to think of yourself is as “accomplished.” Even if you don’t feel like there are many accomplishments to brag about, there’s one thing you’re forgetting.
Remember who your competition is.
Who are the guys mostly competing for the attention of young, hot girls? Men in their 20s. What’s wrong with this picture? These girls you’re going after are plagued by frat guys!
Most of the guys these girls are dealing with are boring, beer-drinking football watchers. Most of them probably live in their parents’ houses when they’re not at school, and have nothing to offer a date besides spicy chicken wings.
The job market for younger guys sucks right now, and that’s a huge advantage for you. No matter what job you have, It’s probably several steps up from all the guys currently hitting on these girls.
In contrast, you have a lot over all these guys. You’ve probably had a lot more life experiences, you have more stories to tell, you can make it clear that you have a job and a life and you’re not just starting out.
We can help you come off right.
If you’re worried you’re going to come off sounding old and desperate, forget that. This guide will help you present yourself online so girls will be falling all over themselves to meet you. After all, you’re a refined, accomplished older man. The trick is to walk the line between “older” and “old.” Girls love older men, but not old men. We’ll help you make sure they know which one you are.
When you’re dating younger women, you have another advantage.
The odds are in your favor.
Remember when you were in your 20s? Remember how different things were then? When we were in our early 20s, it always seemed like there were dozens of us for every girl. The girls had their pick, because there were plenty of young guys for every hot girl.
Now, it’s different. You’re one of very few refined, established older men going after a pool of younger women who are specifically looking for men like you. The tables have turned, my friend.
Learn to use the odds to your advantage.
On one of our highly ranked websites, SugarDaddyMeet.com, there are three girls for every man. That gives you a huge advantage over the thousands of frat boys jockeying for the girls’ attention.
You’re out in the front of the pack. So adjust your mindset, start thinking about yourself as a refined, established man that girls will want to meet, and don’t hesitate to use every trick you have to get out there and date younger girls. They’ll thank you for it later, and you’ll thank yourself for not wasting any more time with old women, fugly women, and the kind of women you thought you deserved.
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The Truth About Older Men Love Dating Younger Women

This montwomenoldermenh Austin-based profressional matchamker and relationship expert Julia McCurley weighs in on what we all see among the wealthy: younger women attracted to older men. Long a staple in many cultures, McCurley examines the basis of how it really works.

The first thought that comes to many women’s minds when they think of older men dating younger women is that men might only be interested in eye candy and in perpetuating the illusion of their own youth. For some men, this may be true, yet I have found that the attraction is a little more complicated than that.

Older men love dating younger women because of three primary reasons.

1. Younger women may be more sexually attractive to them.

2, Younger women help older men feel more youthful.

3. Younger women idolize older men and do not call them on their issues like an older woman might.

These are all the stereotypical reasons that come to mind to some people think older men love to date younger woman. According to famed psycholigist Abraham Maslow, there are five basic human needs experienced to varying degrees by all of us. However, some of us have higher needs than others genetically at different developmental stages in our lives. Here is some food for thought in regards to that.

First is the survival need, which encompasses the need to stay alive with food, clothing and shelter but it also includes the psychological needs to feel safe and secure. Younger women are often looking for a sense of security that an older man can provide. Older men love dating younger women because the level of security they can offer a younger woman satisfies her in ways it might not an older partner he might seek.

The next need is connection. We all have a need to be connected to other people. Some of us need that more than others. This is a need that is different for men and women at different stages in their lives. Young adult women typically have a larger need for connection. While they will create careers, their main focus is their relationship and creating a family. Young adult men, on the other hand, are most focused on the need for significance. They have relationships and start families but their primary focus is figuring out a way to make it in the world. In young adult relationships, these needs are often in conflict, as the woman wants more intimacy and quality time and the younger man is instead focused on work and building his career.

The next need is freedom. People with high freedom needs do best in relationships with someone else who also possesses a high freedom need. Another reason older men love dating youger women is because even though she is focused on connection, she might be willing to allow an older man freedom in exchange for the security and the attention he gives her when they are together. This ofte creates a win/win arrangement for both.

The fourth need is fun. A younger woman still has a keen sense of energetic fun whereas an older woman may have transitioned into meeting her fun need with her children or having a quieter kind of fun. This younger, energetic kind of fun is attractive to an older man who may be feeling his mortality and seeking a bit more fun than he’s had in his past relationships.

Older men date younger women for many reasons. Some of the relationships last, some don’t. Here’s why.

1. Fantasy love fades. Usually within a year. At first, the older man is in love with her looks and youthful spirit. Eventually, he realizes all they have in common is a roof over their heads, and he’ll be off to look for a relationship with substance he might not thought he found with a younger woman.

2. Older men may say they feel younger, but dating younger women won’t make them younger. No matter how hard older men try to make the wrinkles disappear, the darn things keep showing up in the mirror.

3. Older men and younger women utilize each other, similar to a business arrangement. He has money, assets, power, and security; she has youth and beauty. If the money runs out, or someone richer comes along, she may break the lease, leaving him with an empty wallet and his arms around a tree trying to survive the storm the relationship may have created.

4. OK, maybe she’s not using him. Perhaps she loves him because he’s more patient, laid back, mature, gentle, and understanding than men her age. Still, she’s likely considered his financial attribute at some point. Rarely do I see younger women with destitute older men. Do you?

What matters most to all people is love, no matter what the age or circumstance. With more love in your life, there will be more life in your love.

Why some women prefer Older Men for Dating or Marriage

8287570_f260_副本There are many celebrity married couples where the man is old enough to be the father of the woman. Whether it is younger woman dating older man, older women dating younger men or women getting attracted to already married men, society does not look kindly at the woman in such relationships. Those women are often branded as gold diggers, cougars or the other woman whereas the man in the relationship would be called a ‘stud’ or ‘hero’. While I am not supportive of those ladies who ruin the homes of other woman or those men who leave their wives for younger women, I would give the benefit of doubt for those single women in the other categories that they may have been genuinely in love.

Reasons Why some women prefer Older Men for Dating or Marriage

There may be many reasons why a younger woman may prefer to choose an older man. Some of them can be because

  • They may be more matured and responsible.
  • Older men mostly have established Careers or Business which gives the financial stability and comforts a lady desire.
  • Older men tend to be more caring and may pamper her more and also be an authority figure in her life who takes change of things better.
  • They are more reliable and disciplined compared to their young counterparts.
  • They also seem to be more devoted to their partners and normally do not run around flirting or sleeping around with several women.
  • They are more sexually experienced and know to please their partner.
  • They are also knowledgeable because of their own experiences about what makes a relationship work and do not commit the mistakes younger men does.
  • An Older Man may not possess the energy of his younger counterpart and thereby need not be pleased sexually on a daily basis which most woman consider as a positive thing.
  • He also may not want children from you as he might already have some which is definitely a plus for a career oriented woman.
  • He is more knowledgeable because of his age and because of this wisdom he can teach her and make her feel more secure and confident.

If it is not his Qualities which make a younger woman drawn to him then may beshe is genuinely in love with him. And love is blind, isn’t it? If it is not love that has attracted her to him then may be she is a Gold Digger who is after his money. What do you think?

10 Advantages Of Dating Older Men

screen-shot-2015-01-11-at-1-02-34-pmYoung women often get tired of the let down that comes from dating men their age. There are too many fleeting, career-minded gents who are simply looking to have a little fun until they are ready to have a genuine relationship. Although society generally accepts the younger woman/older man duo, these relationships can be taboo. But what do we do when men our age are constantly letting us down? If you’re tired of waiting around for a “good guy,” you might want to explore another age group: the older man. Here are 10 things you can expect from these ripe gents:

He knows he is

You will know who he is and what he wants right from the get go. He knows what he likes and doesn’t like, but he is open minded enough to go with the flow. His ease and confidence will be a breath of fresh air.

He doesn’t mind the bush

Goodbye shaving, waxing and plucking. Older men grew up in a different generation when the bush was sexy. He’ll go down on you without question. You’ll feel more like a “natural woman” which will be liberating and free. He appreciates your girl parts just the way they are.

He is financially secure

Older men are financially secure. Even if they are not rich, they know where there money is, and this won’t be an issue. You won’t have to worry about contributing to the bill even on the 5th date. If you choose to, it’s because YOU CHOOSE TO out of fairness and equality, not because his courtship grace period is over.

You will never hear, “I have to focus on my career right now”

The older man is settled. He has made a career in this field or the other. He is free to focus on you, his interests and desires and, eventually, your mutual plans. How liberating would it be to be with a man who can focus on the relationship irrespective of whatever else is going on in his life?
If you are indecisive, he’ll choose (and it’ll be great)

Older men have been around the block. They know great places to eat, drink and socialize. No more walking around the East Village for an hour trying to figure out where to sit down for a good conversation.

Sex will be like making love each time

No more questioning whether or not he’ll hold your hand or introduce you to his friends. Sex will be intimate. He will kiss you, look you in the eyes when he’s inside you and tell you how beautiful you are. He will know how to touch you so that you enjoy sex just as much as he does. He will appreciate each time he gets to sleep with you because he looks at it as an experience, not an adventure.

He appreciates your depth

Older men genuinely enjoy good conversation. It is not an arbitrary dating ritual. He wants to hear about your career, ideas and adventures. It turns him on just as much as your physical appearance. So speak up on these dates!

He appreciates your youth

Confident older men want to keep in the now. They want to surround themselves with vibrant people because it keeps them youthful. When people approach middle age, it is easy to coast through life and be comfortable with what they’ve built for themselves. If a man is dating a younger woman, chances are he is looking to maintain his youth. You keep them feeling alive and inspired which, in return, makes you feel deeply desired.

He knows how to handle his family

It can be tricky introducing your significant other to the family for the first time especially if you’ve only done it once or twice before. Older men are well aware of their family’s dynamics, and he knows how to navigate through landmines and awkwardness when a new spouse is introduced. You won’t feel the pressure because he’ll be like a magician, handling the tough nuances without you even knowing he’s doing it.
He will show you places and things you never thought existed

With age comes experience. This is no secret. If you have an adventurous spirit and you’re curious about the world, let him show you the ropes. You may find yourself in a country you didn’t even know was on the map or in a workman’s shop that makes customary doorknobs for country homes. The older man doesn’t just know the streets of your city; he knows the back alleys as well. Let him show you the world.

If you find yourself uninspired by the oh-so familiar dating dynamics of your age group, try an older gent. This may not be the guy you see yourself marrying and having kids with, but it’ll sure be a low-risk adventure that you’ll never forget. TC mark