So you have your profile all set up, you have an “about me” page, you have a photo of you looking dashing in a suit or on a tropical vacation. Next comes the most important part: actually interacting with the sugar babies.
This is the most critical phase of closing the deal.
Even if a girl loves everything she sees on your profile (and she will), she’ll want to know if you seem to be like your profile on first contact. Follow our rules for talking to the sugar babies, and these rules of dating a younger girl will help you make sure you can hook up with these hot younger women.
Here is your advantage.
Unlike on match.com, eharmony, and a bunch of other “find love” websites, the girls on sites where older men can meet young and beautiful women know that their most important contribution is their looks. They know the men they’re looking to meet want someone young and beautiful, and they know they won’t be able to make up for a butterface with a so-called “great personality.” They know the men on these sites are only there to meet the young and beautiful women, and they’re okay with that.
Unlike on most dating sites, the women on these sites expect a certain level of being sexualized and objectified. You don’t want to be the guy that only demands naked pictures, but you don’t want to go too far into being a “nice guy” either. Nothing tells a woman a guy will be an easy meal ticket like bending over backwards to please someone you barely know.
Girls on these sites are less prissy.
Regular dating sites are full of girls who just want to be treated like a princess and spoiled, but they also have a huge laundry list of what they want men to be like, look like, and sound like before they’re willing to meet. This isn’t the case with younger women looking to meet older, established, more refined men most of the time.
They are worried about just being used.
Make sure you can make her feel like a princess. That’s what most of the girls on these websites want, underneath the ones who just want a quick buck or gifts of cash. They want to feel cherished and protected and spoiled, like a fairytale dream come true. It’s not that hard to make them feel that way with very little effort.
Remember that you’re the prize. Be charming and sensual.
When you interact with these girls, comment on their pics—“I love the dress,” or “Your hair really frames your face like that” are nice lines that say you’re paying attention, not just looking for a set of tits and ass to take to a local diner.
Make sure to sound like you’re being hounded by girls on the site.
Women are ferocious in competition. Give her a reason to feel like she has to act now, or she’ll lose you to another girl if she waits.
Move to texting quickly.
You want to show that you can keep up with a younger, more modern crowd. Texting frequently shows that you’re an older, refined man, but not an “old man.” Here are some good lines to use on the sugar babies over texting.
- “What are you wearing right now? I like visuals. Describe it.”
- “Sorry, I was on a call with some bankers in Dubai. What’s going on?”
- “You seem to be unusual for the kind of girls on here. Am I wrong?”
- “I bet you smell sexy…I loooooove a woma’s smell….it’s the gateway to sensuality.”
- “I can’t meet till next Tuesday, I’m in Chile/Brazil meeting some folks.”
These lines convey an easy sensuality and confidence, and establish that you’re a busy professional who may be willing to fit her into your life, if she’s good enough.