The first thing you need to get in order isn’t your profile, or your picture, or what you’re going to wear. The first thing you have to deal with is very simple:
You have to get your mindset in the game.
A lot of guys over the age of 40 have problems seeing themselves as being real contenders for the affections of hot women in their 20s. The problem, first of all, is that these guys see themselves as “old.”
You’re only old if you think you are. When you want to start dating younger women, don’t think of yourself as old. Think of yourself as “refined.” Younger girls love “refined” guys.
Another way to think of yourself is as “accomplished.” Even if you don’t feel like there are many accomplishments to brag about, there’s one thing you’re forgetting.
Remember who your competition is.
Who are the guys mostly competing for the attention of young, hot girls? Men in their 20s. What’s wrong with this picture? These girls you’re going after are plagued by frat guys!
Most of the guys these girls are dealing with are boring, beer-drinking football watchers. Most of them probably live in their parents’ houses when they’re not at school, and have nothing to offer a date besides spicy chicken wings.
The job market for younger guys sucks right now, and that’s a huge advantage for you. No matter what job you have, It’s probably several steps up from all the guys currently hitting on these girls.
In contrast, you have a lot over all these guys. You’ve probably had a lot more life experiences, you have more stories to tell, you can make it clear that you have a job and a life and you’re not just starting out.
We can help you come off right.
If you’re worried you’re going to come off sounding old and desperate, forget that. This guide will help you present yourself online so girls will be falling all over themselves to meet you. After all, you’re a refined, accomplished older man. The trick is to walk the line between “older” and “old.” Girls love older men, but not old men. We’ll help you make sure they know which one you are.
When you’re dating younger women, you have another advantage.
The odds are in your favor.
Remember when you were in your 20s? Remember how different things were then? When we were in our early 20s, it always seemed like there were dozens of us for every girl. The girls had their pick, because there were plenty of young guys for every hot girl.
Now, it’s different. You’re one of very few refined, established older men going after a pool of younger women who are specifically looking for men like you. The tables have turned, my friend.
Learn to use the odds to your advantage.
You’re out in the front of the pack. So adjust your mindset, start thinking about yourself as a refined, established man that girls will want to meet, and don’t hesitate to use every trick you have to get out there and date younger girls. They’ll thank you for it later, and you’ll thank yourself for not wasting any more time with old women, fugly women, and the kind of women you thought you deserved.